I just saw an Alien!

is it true..?..........before any1 else asked d same question, I asked the question to myself, and guess what!.........something really big is waiting to be happening and its just how it is happening that takes me to more excitement and shock then the real thing of happening, to see an Alien!

It started like dis.........
12.30(00.30) AM, 16th may, 2009 (just hours before)
I went to upper terrace of house to sleep, where my few friends, had already been far before went to their respective dreamlands!

I was trying hard to sleep, I passed nearly 2 hours just wondering when il sleep, listening my beautiful music besides me....and rotating throughout bed as if practising swimming!... and suddenly sum interesting thing happened in my boring hours!

Uh......
holy shit man!
Sorry!

I don’t know what, but something, sum force is restricting me to write more. I really want to narrate what happened, but don’t know it’s just not happening!
Damn it!
How is it possible that whatever I right relating that, just doesn’t finishes! Can u believe it?
I believe the night is going to be too long for me!............but I assure u il be back!

(Hours after)

Alien story continued... “The Truth Revealed”

So, guys now here i am, all set and ready to reveal the truth.

The truth which might be hard to digest!

Now let me continue from where I left. I am just adding the few things that happened before when I went for sleep.

Among the first of few friends sleeping were, Ashish, the one who rarely stays awake till midnight (strange for a boy of this young age) and next was Nirav, who after his daily dose of reading few chapters had went to sleep.

Below our great terrace, we also have another, adjacent terrace with our rooms, where Hitesh is with his lap surfing the internet, (I bet there will only be 1 site open and that will be Orkut!) Next is Sandip, few feets away from Hitesh standing near the wall, talking on phone, a routine for him.(believe me to guess with whom he is talking is more tough than to complete our projects in MBA).

Now before going further let me tell you, I even had discovered the name of Alien, and that is ‘Deva’! Yeah it sounds funny, but real truth can be funny at times.

So coming back to revealing of truth, there were 2 unanswered issue, first about the force restricting me to write.........and second who, what an how about Alien.

Now let me take the first, the force. The force that was restricting me was my phone!

Yeah........., my phone, the Nokia 6233 lying on my Bed in bed room. What was happening was as soon as I start writing something related to Alien, my phone used to rang and henceforth I was supposed to go in to my Bed room, to pick up the phone, leaving the lines incomplete and hence forcing me to write from scratch as I had different ways to frame sentences all the time. You can only say it was coincident that I received 3 phones from my different friends, right at the time I used to start and start again. They called me to wish ‘Happy Birthday’ – though it isn’t my official Birthday as per English calendar, actually it’s my Birthday as per Hijri calendar.

Now the real truths..............1^st) when I encountered Alien?

It was during the time I was lying on my Bed in half sleep, and someone called me with my name!

Seriously!....

He wanted me to wake up! And no sooner did I wake up, I turned and there he was. I saw and I screamed...........that was the Alien!

2^nd) who was he?

There is a request before you go further..........

Please don’t come searching me!

Yeah the Alien named ‘Deva’ was right in front of me! He was none other

Than my last but not the least room partner Divyang!....yeah ‘Deva’ is his pet name. What happened was Deva had come up to give me an important message, a task which we were supposed to accomplish next day. But the way he looked at that time in almost hairless head, with sweat (happened due to its excessive running) running through tonnes of powder on his face, with darkness surrounding all the place but followed with the background of little sparks of lights coming from opposite flats....... actually Deva has these peculiar habit of rubbing too much powder to his face! The whole seen made me seem to resemble an Alien in Deva. And that was my Alien.

PS: the reason I wrote ‘don’t come searching me’ earlier was I am sure there are few ones sure looking to catch me up so as to give me a nice beating! At least kahavate such bhi honi chahiye, “Khoda pahad nikla chuha (Deva in this case)”

Love at first sight?

A journey of Crush to love:

People believe in love at first sight, i disagree.

What I feel is it is not the love which is at first sight but it is the crush which happens at the first sight. There is a small gap between crush and the love which people does not realise and often gets misguided.

Crush is something incontrollable. You can get a crush on someone or on almost anyone who may attract/satisfy you in form of his/her beauty, voice, looks, body, attitude, nature, or identity...
Various things like attraction, affection, and respect are associated with crush that helps in forming a crush.

People always evaluate the good and the bad, the pros and the cons, isn't it? and yes the same applies here. We knowingly or unknowingly evaluate many things in choosing our mate, like:

Is he/she perfect for me? Is he/she my type? What is the future with him/her? Is he/she fulfilling my needs of caste & culture and do I really give importance to it? how beautiful is she or how handsome is he? what about families? whats the financial position?....and so on..

Crush tooks many roads. Either it turns out to be a failure,or it may just remain as crush or it can lead to sucessful road towards Love.

In the stage towards Love from Crush, comes the stage of 'Let going'!... (its very much possible that you are doing this and still never realsises)

We do select someone even though everything is not as per our requirement. just try to count how many times in our life had we compromised, or adjust!? many, right? same here!. wether we may realise it or not but there is something in the opposite personality, which is really so important for us that we forget or rather let go all other unfulfilled necessitites and we accept them. we take a one step further than from Crush to Love, 'Crossing the very little gap'.... and than the all time famous sentence comes into picture, "We are in Love", "made for each other"...

God bless the very few lucky ones who gets the PERFECT MATCH. And to get True Love is like getting the biggest gift from Almighty, God.

The most common thing between crush and love is that both can be one sided. But one significant difference is that crush can be many times, but for Love, its hard to comment that Love just happens One, though largely i do believe that!

For those who do think that Love does happens at first sight, is due to there ignorance to understand something about simple biological thing, "CRUSH". Crush is very natural, and it happens to almost any natural humanbeing.

Unless we understand this simple thing we vl see many Heartbreaks, depressions on this beautiful planet of God.

One more thing i will like to add, u might go to find up love and end up having a crush, coz love is not searched, it comes naturally, its not created, it just happens!

"Love is not Blind, Lovers ARE!"

"Love yourself for others to love you"

"no body are bad, No body are perfect, they are just different. the best for other might not be best for you, and only you might know whats best for you"

PS: I am Open for refinment, counter arguments.

A DAY WITH SOBHA DE, PRAHLAD KAKKAR..........

Today, 19th april,2009 was one of the very wonderful day of my life,where i not only got an honor of meeting Sobhaa de, Prahlad Kakkar, Ustad Amjad Ali Khan... but even had shared the dais with R. Gopalakrishna, executive director of TATA sons,second next to Mr.Ratan Tata for TATA group.

why?

Today my collage, where i am pursuing PGPIBM,AMA had organised event name Shaping Young Mind Program(SYMP) held at IIM-A organised in collabaration with AIMA(All India Management Association).

There were nearly 600 to 700 students ranging from different B-schools and others attending that programme held at IIM.

These above mentioned 4 celebrity namely: (a sort intro..as per there sequence of attending)

1) Prahlad Kakkar: Famous Ad guru with brand like Pepsi and many more, person owing Scuba Diving schools, a Cigar manufacturer & much more to his belt. (In above pic)

2) R.Gopalakrishna: Executive director of TATA sons; Chairman,Vice-chairman & director of many Tata companies. As per his position in TATA he is second key man, just next to Mr.Ratan Tata.

3) Ustad Amjad Ali Khan: Famous Sarod Player, Sarod a classical musical instrument.A person who won India's Highest civilian awar,Padma vibhusan.

4) Sobha de: famous Novelist with many record selling books, a past model, a socialite, a columnist & much more to her name.
(As in Above Pic at top of the page)

Scene.........

This celebrities representing to different fields were called so as to share there thoughts and deliever lectures to young aspiring minds.

As Being student of AMA, few of us got preveilaged share the dais, (also known as stage) with them alternatively.

8 of us were supposed to be seated besides them on stage, we then had asked questions to them after they had completed the speech, than general audience were given chance to ask there questions.

What about me?

I shared the dais with Mr. R. Gopalkrishna, had preveileged to ask question to him and obviously had shaken hand with him.

Moreover i was able to get Autograph from Mr.Prahlad kakkar that said "jaffar lots of love....prahlad"..........icing on cake was i even got autograph from Ms. Sobha de!........

My first ever tutti phutti poem (i knw it doesnt rhymes!) of my logic! yeah obviously i m not genius!

LOVE IS LIKE A CLOTH
U want the most Comfortable.
U Feel proud when its really good.
U Do aspire to have best of it.
It reflects your taste, status, culture.
Its reflection of what you are.
It takes you in within.
It Provides u cover.
U may have to work hard to get it, or u l b very lucky to have it, whatever it may be, as a faith holds in for you!
D ONLY DIFFERENCE................LOVE IS NOT CHANGED, AS CLOTHES ARE!....

Guitar day!

Finally, today came the day when i fullfilled my 1 dream which i desperately wished from years. Today, 16th march, 2009 was the day when i first played guitar. I joined the Music classes at khandelkar's to learn guitar. It was my long urge which ultimately made up today.As i was offering my regular namaaz today, just the thought to go and start today striked, and no sooner i completed my namaaz,i went for inquiry and ultimately lend up ending playing guitar!

hie!
yeah i missed dis few days expressing sm of the many interesting n not so interesting things that happened. Days were going so specialising in particular field that i can literally name the days! like i can say sunday was 'Pastries day', than Monday was 'French day'.............
ah... sorry here, as i m going, friends are waiting, as we r supposed to go for playing cricket match. Though i m not to keen to go (not that i dont like playing cricket but d thing is playing after years, will really put my body aching for days)........so now il go down n vl try to find excuse not to join dem.......lets see.........meet u den n also possibly il narrate my few interesting stories which went in these few days........
till den MERCI (thank yoou in French).....................

hello,

yeah..i m still online jst wasting my time. just i wanna express my proud feeling that i caught my first ever reader!,Sherin......... Sherin, my senior who is right beside me as we are sharing computers of our wide,famous library of AMA in Ahmedabad. I thank her as she helpd me throughout this whole drama of creating a blog,and writting and blah......blah........

Also she was happy with my first post!......... and so, happy i am! (not counting the probability of how true it is!?)

Feeling gr8 writing the blog, il waste ur time later, bye..................

Blog!

Blog is a very recent word for me. i had heard it but never ever were interested in until yesterday!

yesterday i completed d book, 'Off! course i love you....til i found someone else." dis sparked an child ego within me to open my own blog.

And here i am, jafar kapasi,age 21, an MBA-IB student, who does not finds time to complete his assignment but, for such things like blogging,chating, surfing.......i do.

though i dnt have good writing skills, i m not knowledgable or smart enough, 'genius? not at all' but still, i m here. I m here to write, to satisfy mysely, i m here to what i am.

critics are always welcomed for my writing, just dont take trouble in improving my grammer!thats it.....logging off! thanx 4 bearing me.