People believe in love at first sight, i disagree.
What I feel is it is not the love which is at first sight but it is the crush which happens at the first sight. There is a small gap between crush and the love which people does not realise and often gets misguided.
Crush is something incontrollable. You can get a crush on someone or on almost anyone who may attract/satisfy you in form of his/her beauty, voice, looks, body, attitude, nature, or identity...
Various things like attraction, affection, and respect are associated with crush that helps in forming a crush.
People always evaluate the good and the bad, the pros and the cons, isn't it? and yes the same applies here. We knowingly or unknowingly evaluate many things in choosing our mate, like:
Is he/she perfect for me? Is he/she my type? What is the future with him/her? Is he/she fulfilling my needs of caste & culture and do I really give importance to it? how beautiful is she or how handsome is he? what about families? whats the financial position?....and so on..
Crush tooks many roads. Either it turns out to be a failure,or it may just remain as crush or it can lead to sucessful road towards Love.
In the stage towards Love from Crush, comes the stage of 'Let going'!... (its very much possible that you are doing this and still never realsises)
We do select someone even though everything is not as per our requirement. just try to count how many times in our life had we compromised, or adjust!? many, right? same here!. wether we may realise it or not but there is something in the opposite personality, which is really so important for us that we forget or rather let go all other unfulfilled necessitites and we accept them. we take a one step further than from Crush to Love, 'Crossing the very little gap'.... and than the all time famous sentence comes into picture, "We are in Love", "made for each other"...
God bless the very few lucky ones who gets the PERFECT MATCH. And to get True Love is like getting the biggest gift from Almighty, God.
The most common thing between crush and love is that both can be one sided. But one significant difference is that crush can be many times, but for Love, its hard to comment that Love just happens One, though largely i do believe that!
For those who do think that Love does happens at first sight, is due to there ignorance to understand something about simple biological thing, "CRUSH". Crush is very natural, and it happens to almost any natural humanbeing.
Unless we understand this simple thing we vl see many Heartbreaks, depressions on this beautiful planet of God.
One more thing i will like to add, u might go to find up love and end up having a crush, coz love is not searched, it comes naturally, its not created, it just happens!
"Love is not Blind, Lovers ARE!"
"Love yourself for others to love you"
"no body are bad, No body are perfect, they are just different. the best for other might not be best for you, and only you might know whats best for you"
PS: I am Open for refinment, counter arguments.
